CONTROVERSY SURROUNDING ALLEGED CHILD MARRIAGE IN BAYELSA: CULTURAL TRADITION OR CHILD ABUSE?

The recent controversy surrounding the purported marriage between a four-year-old girl and a 54-year-old man in the Akeddei community of Bayelsa has sparked widespread debate.

The team heard submissions from the father of the toddler, Mr. Morris Aboma, the "groom," Mr. Akpos Napoleon, and the Paramount ruler, Chief Moneyman Binabo. In their separate submissions before the government team, they all insisted that the purported child marriage was a traditional practice termed "Koripamo," aimed to save the little girl's life. They explained that it was a cultural practice in Akeddei community, Oyakiri clan, that if a girl child always fell sick, a man would be required to drop a symbolic amount as a token to save the little girl from dying.

 

The community representatives said that what transpired between the little girl and Napoleon was not a marriage but an Ijaw cultural practice called "Koripamo." They further explained that whenever the traditional rite of "Koripamo" was conducted, the man who paid the token was not required to take the girl as a wife. According to the Ijaw tradition, this rite can be done on a boy child or girl child.

 

Father of the child, Morris Aboma, who spoke in Ijaw language, said his daughter was always sick to the point of death. He said that according to Akeddei tradition, the only way to save her life is for a man to pay a symbolic price and save the child's life and that it had nothing to do with a real marriage.

 

According to the "groom," the outcry that trailed the rite is regrettable as all he did was just to save the child's life as she is no longer sick again. He said that such tradition had been going on but it had not been elaborately celebrated with fanfare like the Dec. 26, 2023 event which drew widespread reactions and outrage.

 

The paramount ruler of Akeddei community, Binabo, said he heard of a marriage in the community during the festivities. The traditional ruler said that he did not, however, have full details, not until the DPO of Sagbama Police Station asked him to produce those that got married in the community. Binabo further said he had to invite the parents of the little girl to get detailed information of what happened on the marriage day. He said the parents told him that the little girl had been sick and that one Napoleon had to drop a symbolic amount. He emphasized that what happened in Akeddei community was not a formal marriage but a fulfillment of a cultural practice.

 

On their parts, Andah and Boco said from the submission of the parents of the little girl, the "husband," and the paramount ruler of Akeddei community, what happened was not a formal marriage but a cultural practice known as "Koripamo." The duo noted that from the information gathered, the little girl had not been sexually abused as confirmed by Dr. James Omietimi at GRIT office and that the child was living a normal life with no relationship with the 54-year-old.

 

Immediately after the meeting, Chairman of GRIT, Dr. Dise Ogbise-Goddy, stated that the deliberation was frank and fruitful and promised to give further update on the matter. She said that the Bayelsa Ministry of Women Affairs, Children and Social Development and all stakeholders would review the situation and take a decision. "Like I had stated earlier, the Bayelsa State Government is child-friendly and will do anything to protect all the children of the state from any form of perceived abuse."


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